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What is it that lights you up? What do you want to spend more of your life attending to? Is there anything in the way of that happening? The REALIZE WHAT MATTERS bog is a place to attend to that. Enjoy what you find here…
Hitched
January 11, 2017While housesitting for friends in the Hamptons I meet Richard – who turns out to be the love of my life. Within a year we’re married.
Step Up Mentorship
April 11, 2016Presenting to Step Up’s college-bound high school girls and their mentors. Their trajectory is to “graduate high school confident on their way to joining the next generation of professional women.”
Self Acceptance Skill Building
March 11, 2015With Emily-Anne at St. John’s University in NYC equipping young women with skills to “bring kind attention to some of our most challenging self-talk.”
Flawd
January 11, 2015The impact of WeStopHate (over 1 million video views!) leads to a book deal. We co-author (and I illustrate!) FLAWD – How To Stop Hating On Yourself, Others and the Things that Make you Who You Are (Penguin Random House...
ThinkPeace Workshop
January 11, 2013I go to the Berlin-Brandenburg International School in Germany to work with girls who are part of “the global girl community.” Together we explore life as a heroic journey – and ourselves within it.
Girls Empowerment Network
December 11, 2012I move to Austin, TX where I go into schools all over Austin. Here learning the “Break the Chain” and having conversations with the GEN Austin girls around stopping the violence women and girls endure.
Anti-Bullying Movement
November 5, 2010I meet 15-year old Emily-Anne Rigal who uses her love of creating hilarious YouTube videos to start the anti-bullying movement, WeStopHate. I support her in getting her teen-esteem message out: “People who feel good about themselves don’t put others down.”
The Ruby Books
January 1, 2006Believing girl-energy to be some of the most potent stuff on the planet, I use the cartoon character I created – Ruby – to engage with girls online to help them “find, shape and share their great girl voices.”
Insight Meditation Society
January 1, 2000After completing a three month silent retreat at IMS in Barre, MA I decide “this is the life for me” and join their staff. I get to be part of the start-up team of the Forest Refuge for “sustained, longer-term...